Words, words, words.

Words are powerful. As our children learn to use them, they share their funny ideas and their worrisome fears. They mimic us loving and caring for one another with kind gentle words. Unfortunately, they also copy us with some not so nice words!

According to recent research, "electronic toys that light up, talk or play music might slow language development in toddlers" . The children focus on the toy, are even engaged for quite some time, but there is no talking, no conversation. There is no reciprocal communication with the parent and thus no language skills being reinforced.

One article alluded to the possibility that talking in conversations encourages
sharing and turn taking in play.

Old fashioned toys on the other hand, lend to conversational interactions. "... saying “Oh, that’s a piggy,” or “That barn is red.” Words like that were said over four times as often with books "

So, get out the blocks, the puzzles and the books. Get the play kitchen and work bench out. Lets talk about life as we play.

Don't get me started on white noise...like the TV being on constantly!

Kinesiology Taping, take 2

Earlier this year I saw a post about Kinesiology taping and shared it, below.

Feb 26, 2015

If it's good enough for football players, children requiring help to strengthen muscles and other athletes, I wonder if Kinesio taping would help pregnant moms ?

 "Kinesio taping is not just for the treatment of muscular pain, it is also quite effective in helping reduce postural pain in pregnant women and new mums."

Now, here is another link talking about the benefits.

"Kinesiology tape is a drug-free, safe alternative, which can help relieve many pregnancy symptoms including back pain, swollen feet, sciatica, carpal tunnel, and other aches and pains. Because of this, it is an ideal option for expectant mothers seeking relief from the ailments associated with pregnancy."

Shopping with infants

Grocery shopping can be quite a chore with infants and toddlers. During this busy holiday month it can seem an even greater challenge. But, please do not put the car seat on top of the cart!

Falls from carts lead to tragic head injuries. Car seats are safest when rear facing in a car...not atop a grocery cart.

Safety means more time (wear baby in a front carrier) and perhaps more people (take along a person to help with the children) But your children are worth the investment.

 It suggests on the AAP News web site,

• use carts with safer designs that allow children to ride closer to the ground (for example, in a small model car in front of the cart).

The Consumer Product Safety Commission has some ideas too: -

     Use seatbelts to restrain your child in the cart seat.

 Retailers should ensure that all carts have seatbelts and that the seatbelts work as intended.

 Stay with your child at all times.

 Don’t allow your child to ride in the cart basket.

 Don’t place a personal infant carrier or car seat in the cart seat or basket.

 Don't allow your child to ride or climb on the sides or front of the cart.

 Don’t allow a child to push the cart with another child in it.

#CradledComfortableConfident

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Party Planning!

When planning a big party (Bar Mitzvah, Quinceañera, wedding) people use consultants, wedding day coordinators, caterers, decorators and florists. They may even hire tables, chairs, linens and the like to make the event memorable for all.

The same can be said about pregnancy, labor, birth and the postpartum period....it's a big event bringing a new person into this world and should be given the same attention, if not more, than a big party.

A birth and postpartum doula allows you the freedom to focus on what is important to you. A doula might guide and teach you in some areas. She may even take over the preparation of light meals, or the folding of laundry, so that you can snuggle your baby or take a much needed nap.

Who is helping you plan for your big birth day? And the days after the birth?

Contact Beverley via www.birth-newbornservices.com 

or Fredericksburg.doula@gmail,com

Placenta encapsulating. Ingestion of your what??

There is much anecdotal evidence that placenta encapsulation etc., can be beneficial to the health and wellbeing of a new mother.

There is now a group of scientists seeking to truly investigate the benefits of placenta ingestion.

What are your thoughts on placenta ingestion?